Social Media, Is being Connected Worth It?

98% of adolescents ages 15 to 17 have a smartphone. 97% of all teens visit the internet daily. When you have access to the internet you have access to all social media. 58% of those people visit TikTok every day. Another 51% go on Snapchat regularly. There is also 50% that go on Instagram every single day. What some may not realize is that social media takes a huge toll on our mental and physical health and it’s even affecting our safety. 

 

Social media is a wonderful way to connect with the world. You can know what’s happening all around you. You can look at the news on Facebook or the latest pop culture on Instagram. Say your family friend has just moved to Australia, you don’t want to be charged with long distance calling so you connect with them through Snapchat. Social media is a fantastic way to connect with the people around you. Even though you have used your phone to connect with people you have become glued, and you are starting to feel isolated as your mental health is declining and you could be inadvertently affecting your safety.   

 

Social media is not as harmless as you may think. It has a significant impact on our mental health. Spending a lot of time on your device can cause you to become isolated. Isolation can cause increased anxiety and depression. You may even experience added aggression. When you isolate yourself and can impair your social skills; this really affects your social and emotional development. As well, your brain can be altered over time.   

 

Researchers, such as Ashley Payton, Sherman, Leanna Hernandez, Patricia Greenfield and Shankar Vedantam wanted to learn about the brain’s reaction in teens while strolling through social media. They tested the reactions through brain scans of the teens. The interesting thing was that even if the teen had liked a photo, their opinion would completely change on what their peers thought or the amount of likes the post would have. They discovered that teenagers respond more positively to the post of themself when the post has more likes. In other words, it made them feel more positive about themself. However, if the post had a smaller amount of likes it would cause a more negative reaction. To quote Shankar Vedantam, “peer pressure matters a lot, especially when you’re 14.” Not only does social media have a massive impact on your mental health, but it also affects your physical health.  

 

When teens are on their phones daily, they may start experiencing neck pain. Being hunched over your phone for hours at a time will most definitely affect your physical health. Not only will your neck start to hurt you may also develop terrible posture. Your hands may also start to cramp after gripping your phone for extended periods of time. Spending an increased amount of time on your phone can also be harmful to your eyes because of blue light. Although blue light is not the only thing you may be seeing online. If you are spending multiple hours on your device, you may run it to photos of super lean and skinny looking actors or models. This may cause you to start thinking about your weight or your physical features. Social media is one of the largest causes of eating disorders. Some can even end up hospitalized after limiting their own eating. Eating disorders can even be caused by cyberbullying. Harassment, negative comments, and personal attacks by cyberbullies have even been linked to teen suicide. A fourteen-year-old boy commit suicide after being bullied for being gay. That is one of many saddening stories. Social media is affecting our own safety and well-being. 

 

Your safety is at risk every time you open social media. As there are many threats online. Social media continues to grow every day, but as social media continues to grow, so does the number of threats. Threats like hackers and trolls. You can be hacked at any time. Since sites collect all your personal data, like your email, date of birth, location, and even your financial information you are more likely to have all that information stolen by hackers. When you are spending all those hours on your phone, think to yourself “is this a safe site or app”, before giving personal information. You are also more likely to be exposed to human traffickers and sexual predators. However, these still are not all the safety issues. There can be a huge influence on young minds when they are scrolling through social media. These are not necessarily good influences. TikTok especially is known for having content involving harmful stunts. As said before, teens can feel peer pressured into doing dangerous and sometimes life-threatening activities. Some of these stunts can involve moving vehicles, like doing flips on a busy street. We need to change these outcomes with practical solutions to prevent these disadvantages. 

 

Although there are many disadvantages towards social media, here are some solutions to create a happier relationship with social media. Try to start reducing your screen time by going on to your setting and putting screen time limits on certain or all apps. Try to remind yourself that there are much better things to do. Possibly even suggest to your family to keep areas device free. This will help you and your family. As a parent you should always try to keep your teenagers and kids outside and active. The outdoors and fresh air boost your mental health. If you are worried that your teen is being overly exposed to information, try and manage their social media and limit the number of social media apps they can use.  These are all potential ways to make sure your teens are mentally and physically happy and healthy, also that they stay safe. 

 

In conclusion, although there are many drawbacks towards social media, causing mental and physical health problems, and safety issues, action can be taken. To regain your physical health, try to substitute screen time for outdoor activities. Try to take part in social functions to help your mental health. As for your safety, be more observant towards what you are seeing and signing up for to prevent potential threats. If we start to use these different preventions towards the drawbacks, we can develop a healthier relationship with social media. 

 

 

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To Live In A Library

If I had to live in a museum, a zoo, or a library for the rest of my life I would pick a library. I would live in a library for the rest of my life because you are surrounded by different stories, some with truth, and some all fiction. You could spend your lifetime reading.It would increase your knowledge of vocabulary and writing. I also think it would be incredible to be able to say I have read all these books. Reading immerses you into new beginnings and ends, to worlds unimaginable created by the knowledge of writers with heads full of creativity and logic. Your brain would be so complex from all the different vocabulary you learn just from reading. You would need a mind that is open with a desire to learn and explore to live in a library. Living in a library would be fantastic. I personally think that I would get lost in the reality of the books. I have not read one hundred books in my lifetime, but when I really enjoy a book that I am reading it is like the words are flowing into me and I become that reality. It is crazy that a pages full of words on it can make you feel that way. Thats why I would choose to live in a library for the rest of my life. Where would you choose to live?

Where I’m From

I am from my home away from home. 

The view of the mountains on the balcony. 

From breathing in cool mountain air. 

I’m from the mountain breeze 

and the wind in my hair. 

 

I am from numbing fingers and toes. 

From bits of snow  

tapping my face on the slopes. 

I’m from feeling the cold wind  

on the chairlift. 

From snow in my coat. 

I am from turns and speed through the snow.  

 

I am from the warm smell of apple pie  

coming from grandma’s oven. 

The sweet taste of cool whip  

and frozen strawberries. 

From our favourite Murdoch Mysteries  

at 4:00 on tv. I’m from long chats with grandma  

about my friends and me. 

 

I am from the swing of the bat. 

The grip in my hands. 

From the thrill that surges through me 

 when I hit the ball. 

I am from the smack of the ball in my glove  

with the glory I feel. 

From sliding into home plate,  

that’s what I truly love. 

 

I am from the warmest feel-good cuddles. 

The touch of his rough paws. 

From his soft floppy ears, 

 and his loud howl in the morning light. 

The brush of his soft fur. 

From the way he sleeps next to me.  

I am from his wonderful joy, 

and the way he makes me so happy. 

 

I am from the swoop of the broom. 

The curl of the rock,  

and the crash of the knockout. 

I’m from the precision of the release. 

From my foot in the hack. 

I am from the concentration on sweeping, 

and all the joy it brings back.  

 

I am from the rattle of the palm trees. 

The crash of the waves. 

From the smell of salt in the breeze. 

The cool ocean water drifting over me. 

I am from the beautiful blue sea, 

 and the peace it brings to me.  

 

I am from happy moments,  

and also sad ones.  

From the people who made me who I am. 

The laugh my head off moments, 

and the cry my eyes out moments.  

I am from all the bright places. 

 

 

  

Winter

Have you looked outside yet? Well, I am happy to inform you that there is snow outside! I know that some are not fond of winter and that is quite all right. I am not saying winter is my favourite season, but it is what makes my house a lot more fun. The reason it makes my house so much more fun is because I can snowmobile, sled and lots more. 

I absolutely love summer, but it is not as fun when you live in the countryside and the only thing you see is fields. In winter, none of that even matters. We own 50 acres of land to snowmobile on. Nothing is more fun than watching one of my friends, cousins or siblings fly off the sled after I purposely hit that bump with the snowmobile. My cousin Isabelle and I snowmobile quite often, especially on snow days. My best friends Reese and Chloe come to my house around 3-4 times a year in winter to be thrown off the sled attached to the snowmobile. It does hurt quite a bit, but it is worth it for the good laugh we have after.  

My dad has a tractor that he uses to create two large hills in our backyard. My brother loves to push me off the hill. I attempted to push him off the hill but before I knew it, I was right back down at the bottom of the hill sinking into the snow. In my defense he is 6’4 and I am a foot shorter than him, so it is a challenge to push him off the hill. Have you ever tried to surf on a sled but instead of water it is snow? I have done that too many times to count but have only been successful once or twice. My brother sure does get a kick out of me falling as any sibling would.  

I have so much fun in the winter especially skiing, snowmobiling, and sledding! Do you enjoy winter activities? 

 

Skiing

I absolutely love skiing. Feeling the snow and ice bits hit against my face, my fingers num from the freezing weather. These things do not sound extremely comfortable but for me nothing else matters than to be high in the mountains skiing down the hills of Mont-Tremblant.  

I have been skiing since I was two years old. My mom did not want to wait to go skiing while my siblings were on the hills with my dad. So, on that day my mom strapped on my boots and skis and off we went to kitty hill. Ten years later, watch me fly down black diamonds like I have never done before. 

 I would consider myself a fairly good skier considering I had an entire year of no skiing in 2020. I was not at the best of my ability at the start of the ski season last year, but I pushed myself to regain the skill I had lost. Now I am tackling glades (skiing through the trees) hopefully I will not be hugging trees this year. I am also going to attempt a double black diamond in the ski season coming up 

Sadly, during COVID-19 I was not able to ski as much as I would have liked to. In April 2021, my parents purchased a condo in Mont-Tremblant. We skied every second weekend on the beautiful snow-white ski hills. I absolutely love having a condo. Usually, we would only be up skiing every two to three times a year with family or family friends. Last year was the best ski season for me! 

Skiing is one of my favourite sports! Have you ever skied before?